10 Things the world can learn from the Philippines
1) How to smile
In the Philippines there are some of the most fantastic smiles I have
ever seen. It’s real. It's genuine. Faces light up, all teeth accounted for, with a contagious glow that can spread far and wide.
Lesson: Plain and simple – Smile! Remember to smile as much as possible because everyone knows that smiles are contagious!
2) How to laugh
Another
quality that I like about the Filipino people is their willingness to laugh. Far too many people here in the Unites States do not laugh or they have a fake laugh. When you have experienced a truly genuine laugh you cannot help but laugh yourself. And a good laugh is therapeutic.
Lesson: Laugh! Don’t take life too seriously. Do what makes you laugh.
3) Short men can jump
In a country where the average height is 5’4’’ for men, basketball is
an ambitious and popular national sport. Basketball, a sport where those with taller heights have a definite advantage, this doesn’t stop the Filipinos
who are surprisingly talented players, despite their height. While
hard to compete at the NBA level, where the average height is 6’7, they always seem to give
it their best shot. Filipinos are highly competitive in the Asian leagues.
Lesson:
Prove people wrong. If you are apparently too short, too fat, too
tall, too thin, not intelligent enough, then prove people wrong.
4) How to sing
If basketball is the national sport then singing and karaoke must be the all time
national activity of the Philippines too.
You can sing anywhere and
everywhere! Videoke and Karaoke rooms, the office, in church, walking down the street, while riding in a jeepney, tricycle, or in a
restaurant, Its clear that no matter where you are you can always sing, sing and sing some more.
Lesson: Don’t restrict
yourself to just the shower, Sing! “Sing like no one is listening.
Dance like no one is watching. Love like you’ve never been hurt and
live like it’s heaven on Earth” – Mark Twain
5) How to pack your ride
The
average Philippines motorcycle leaves the car pooling lane for dead.
If you want a more eco-friendly mode of transport then put your wife
and three kids on a bike and Voila! If you’re not a biker that's ok. Just grab a van or a jeepney and take your entire neighborhood
to town.
Lesson: Ok so let’s try something a bit more realistic and pack our cars with as many people as there are seat belts or take public transportation. If you are traveling solo opt for a scooter!
6) How to pimp your ride
Lesson:
One of the main things about vehicles in the Philippines, in fact any
object in the Philippines is that there are no COLOR barriers. C’mon
people you’ve got a whole rainbow to work with. Let’s put away the
blacks, greys, whites and bring out the yellows, reds, lime greens,
whatever. Let’s try to get away from the black suit, white shirt, tie
phenomenon unless that’s really you?
7) How to eat rice
How
to live, breathe, eat, sleep, everything rice. How to grow rice.
Unlimited rice, rice with garlic, sticky rice, rice for breakfast,
lunch, and dinner, RICE. Okay I think you get the picture.
Unfortunately the Philippines is currently experiencing shortages in
rice supplies and has to import a lot of rice from neighboring South
East Asian countries.
Lesson: In order to support
the Philippines in achieving agricultural sustainability choose an
agricultural loan from CEVI going to one of its rice growing clients.
Help them produce enough rice to feed the nation and reduce their
imports. Let’s apply this model to the rest of the world; choose local
produce, try to harvest something on your own, get more in touch with
nature. It feels good.
8) How to grow tropical islands
They
just seem to pop up everywhere! The Philippines boasts over 7000
tropical islands; big islands, small islands, enchanted islands,
tropical islands. You name it, the Philippines has it.
Lesson:
I would 100% recommend embarking on a journey to this fine country, if
you are fortunate enough to be able to travel. And when you get here
make sure you put money into the local economy not just chain shops and
big name resorts. In fact do this wherever you travel. If you want
any recommendations on some spectacular destinations within the
Philippines contact me through my lender page.
9) How to let people in – accommodate, and share
Filipinos are renowned for their ability to accommodate; even complete strangers will be welcomed with the utmost respect.
Lesson:
Let’s build communities not gates. If you have a fruit tree
overflowing take some to your neighbors, work mates, friends at
school. Couch Surf. Open yourself up to the world and connections with
your neighbors in a global and personal sense.
10) How to appreciate
One
of the themes which is a big part of everyday life in the Philippines
is the art of thanksgiving. They are constantly thankful for what they
have. It is a philosophy which will get you through any situation in
life and ensures that the positives are highlighted.
Lesson:
When you wake up in the morning think of at least one thing you are
thankful for before you start the day. Cliche as it may be, if you
start each day with a few Filipino philosophies; appreciating,
accommodating, laughing, smiling, and singing then it’s much more
likely that you’ll have a good one!
Let’s focus on the
good news not the bad news. Let’s move forward as a positive, unified,
sharing, society based on the true human values of love and
compassion.
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Wednesday, October 31, 2012
‘Kawang gawa’ uniquely, naturally Filipino written by our Filipina friend Jacqueline Cancio Vega
‘Kawang gawa’ uniquely, naturally Filipino written by our Filipina friend Jacqueline Cancio Vega
This short article sounds like something I would have written. Thanks for sharing this with us Jacqueline Cancio Vega.
She writes:
Many years ago on Salcedo Street, Legazpi Village, a woman standing on the curb could not get into her car because of the heavy rain.
Then a man with an umbrella proffered his umbrella so she could get into her car. Tucked safely inside, her hand waved out into the rain with a P20-bill to give the man. The man just walked away and another man watching, just looked incredulous and said “kawang gawa” lang ’yun.”
It was the first time I heard the phrase. I asked my driver Mang Frank what the phrase meant, and he said “gawaing walang anuman, na hindi humihingi ng kapalit, na galing sa puso.” There is no real English equivalent for it and it roughly translates to: “work that expects nothing in return or work from the heart.”
I realized that I had just witnessed a cultural trait that Katrin de Guia, in her book “Kapwa: the Self in the Other,” expounded on—a trait that most urbanized Filipinos who grew up in Manila are not familiar with anymore.
De Guia is the German-born wife of Kidlat Tahimik, the renowned filmmaker. She took her doctoral studies in UP with Virgilio Enrique, the renowned professor who developed “Sikolohiya Filipino.” She explores the kapwa trait that she says is so uniquely Filipino and is something that Filipinos can offer the world as an alternative to the “me, myself and I culture” that defines modern life, because our indigenous world-view is so life-enhancing.
SWS surveys have documented the giving trait of the poorer Filipinos as being more generous than the rich. This has been more pronounced with the floods that Tropical Storm “Sendong” caused, with the small folks giving from the little they have versus the rich giving from their plenty. Then too, the Algires of Cabuyao who took the lost Tata Leo in and reconnected him with his family are perplexed why reward was being offered or the Inquirer was interviewing them for “kawang gawa.”
Since that rainy afternoon in Makati, I have explored this kapwa world more and I have realized that our culture is so rich with goodness and wonderful practices that we who grew up in the urbanized, exclusive subdivisions have forgotten or never even knew. We tend to look down on people we consider poor, keeping them away from us with guards at the gate and demeaning people with the frisking practices at malls. Yet the truth is, we “the people who forgot,” are the poorer people. By denying people the respect and dignity due them because we consider them “poor,” we deny our rich culture that has so much to teach us.
—JACQUELINE C. VEGA,
Jacqueline_cancio_vega@yahoo.com
NOTE: Although some will hate me for saying this it does not change the fact that it is the truth.
There are some Filipinos (Of course Not all Filipinos) who come to the USA and seem to quickly forget where they came from in the Philippines.
Instead of following this uniquely Filipino custom of ‘Kawang gawa’ they opt to cheat and steal from their Filipino neighbors here. They may have more material things than they had while living in the Philippines yet that is no reason to lose this cultural trait which truly make them uniquely Filipino.
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Sunday, October 28, 2012
Why Filipinos Celebrate Festivals
Why Filipinos Celebrate Festivals
Sociable and cheerful, Filipinos love holding Philippine festivals, celebrations that are fun, colorful, exciting and also very meaningful.
Called fiesta or pista in the Filipino language, these festivals are held all year round in many islands of the Philippines for different reasons:
* to give thanks for good harvest or catch
* to mark special events in local history
* to venerate Catholic saints
Whatever the reasons for staging them might be, Philippine festivals are deep-rooted in Filipino culture.
They have been celebrated by many generations of Filipinos.
They have helped to form and seal friendships and camaraderie with one another.
They have also lifted their sometimes battered spirits. They are such a great lift up from the otherwise hard life in the country.
There are so many festivals in the Philippines and the list definitely goes beyond 10.
Still, below is a short list of the top 10 most colorful, exciting, and fun fiestas in the Philippines.
Top 10 Philippines Festivals
1. Ati-Atihan Festival of Kalibo
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
Considered as the mother of Philippine festivals, Ati-Atihan Festival is held yearly in Kalibo, Aklan in Panay Island, Philippines.
It is said to be the precursor of other grand festivals in the Philippines, including the Sinulog Festival of Cebu City and the Dinagyang Festival of Iloilo City.
In this festival, townsfolk dress themselves in aboriginal clothes and deck their bodies with weapons used by the island’s earliest settlers – the Aetas.
Then, they perform tribal dances, moving to the upbeat tune of traditional music as they wind through Kalibo’s streets that are then jampacked with spectators.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Third weekend of January each year
2. Sinulog Festival of Cebu City
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
A festival that marks the local people’s transition from paganism to Catholicism, Sinulog Festival of Cebu City is celebrated in a grand way for nine days in January each year.
It is held in honor of Santo Niño, whose icon is carried by many of the festivals elegantly dressed revelers.
It kicks off with a fluvial procession – where an icon of Santo Niño is hosted in a boat adorned with flowers and candles – and ends with the festive Sinulog Grand Parade – a parade of costumed townsfolk gracefully dancing while cleaving to icons of Santo Niño.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Third weekend of January each year
3. Dinagyang Festival of Iloilo City
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
A festival that exhibits the local people’s excellent choreography, Dinagyang Festival of Iloilo is a religious-cultural event famous for its Ati-Atihan and Kasadyahan.
Ati-Atihan is a parade of about twenty groups of local people dressed as tribesmen.
Their bodies are covered in soot and they dance to the beat of drums and gongs.
Kasadyahan is a cultural presentation of the province’s early history and the people’s conversion to Catholicism.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Fourth weekend of January each year
4. Panagbenga Festival of Baguio City
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
A festival meant to inspire the local people to “bloom” and move forward after a 1990 earthquake left their city shattered, Panagbenga Festival or Flower Festival of Baguio City is also homage to the beautiful flowers that bloom in Baguio, the Philippines’ summer capital.
During this festival, local folks create floats that are ornately decorated with flowers grown in Baguio and its surrounding provinces.
They also dress themselves in flower-inspired costumes, perform traditional dances to the sounds of drums, and parade down the city’s main roads.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
The entire month of February / parade on the last Sunday of February or first Sunday of March
5. Moriones Festival of Marinduque
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
A Lenten Season celebration that fuses folk history and religious events, Moriones Festival of Marinduque has the local people wearing masks to appear like the Roman soldiers of the biblical times.
This festival pays tribute to Saint Longinus, a commander of a century in the Roman army, who was blind in one eye.
This centurion’s story is reenacted in an elaborate theatrical play staged by the locals.
Many Moriones Festival’s revelers also wear masks during the festival season, roaming the streets and jolting people for good-spirited fun.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Good Friday of the Lenten Season of each year
6. Carabao Festival of Pulilan
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
The Carabao Festival of Pulilan in Bulacan is a day of respect for Saint Isidore the Worker – the patron saint of the farmers – and the Filipino farmers’ work companions – the carabaos or water buffalos.
In this festival, carabaos are paraded on the streets and made to kneel at the end of the parade.
The act of kneeling is supposed to replicate a man who knelt before Saint Isidore after finding out by surprise that an angel would help the saint plow the fields.
In the Philippines, carabaos help farmers toil the soil.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
May 14 and May 15 of each year
7. Pahiyas Festival of Lucban
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
Another festival held in honor of Saint Isidore, who Filipinos ask for intercession when praying for a bountiful harvest, is the Pahiyas Festival of Lucban in the province of Quezon.
This festival is very famous for its decorations, as households try to top one another in decking their houses’ facades with fruits, vegetables and handicrafts, creating an explosion of colors in Lucban’s streets.
Also during this festival, people share foods with one another.
These foods include pancit Lucban, triangulo biscuits, fruits, vegetables, and other local treats.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
May 15 of each year
8. Peñafrancia Festival of Naga City
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
The Peñafrancia Festival is a religious festival that honors Naga City’s patron saint – the Our Lady of Peñafrancia – whose wooden icon was brought to the province by its devotees all the way from Salamanca, Spain.
It is a nine-day novena that is capped with a fluvial procession, where the image of the Our Lady Peñafrancia is carried in a pagoda down the Naga River and accompanied by hundreds of flower- and candle-bearing faithful Catholics who chant "Viva La Virgen!"
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Third Saturday of September each year
9. Higantes of Festival of Angono
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
Fishermen and townsfolk in Angono, Rizal in the Philippines honor the city’s patron saint – San Clemente – on November 23 of each year during the Higantes Festival.
The saint’s gigantic images, made of recycled and painted paper, are paraded by fishermen wearing colorful clothing and bearing fishnets, boat paddles, and other tools they use for fishing.
These images are as high as 12 feet and as wide as five feet.
The parade navigates the streets of Angono until it reaches the banks of Laguna de Bay.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
November 23 of each year
10. Giant Lantern Festival of San Fernando
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
Christmas is such a big event for the Filipinos but for the people of San Fernando, it is enormous.
In fact, they like their Christmas lanterns not big but gigantic.
The local people stage the annual Giant Lantern Festival, an awe-inspiring display of over-sized lanterns handcrafted by the locals and made to light up to the tune of lively music and breathtaking fireworks.
So popular is this local festival that San Fernando has earned the title of the Christmas Capital of the Philippines.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
The Saturday before Christmas Eve of each year
Sociable and cheerful, Filipinos love holding Philippine festivals, celebrations that are fun, colorful, exciting and also very meaningful.
Called fiesta or pista in the Filipino language, these festivals are held all year round in many islands of the Philippines for different reasons:
* to give thanks for good harvest or catch
* to mark special events in local history
* to venerate Catholic saints
Whatever the reasons for staging them might be, Philippine festivals are deep-rooted in Filipino culture.
They have been celebrated by many generations of Filipinos.
They have helped to form and seal friendships and camaraderie with one another.
They have also lifted their sometimes battered spirits. They are such a great lift up from the otherwise hard life in the country.
There are so many festivals in the Philippines and the list definitely goes beyond 10.
Still, below is a short list of the top 10 most colorful, exciting, and fun fiestas in the Philippines.
Top 10 Philippines Festivals
1. Ati-Atihan Festival of Kalibo
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
Considered as the mother of Philippine festivals, Ati-Atihan Festival is held yearly in Kalibo, Aklan in Panay Island, Philippines.
It is said to be the precursor of other grand festivals in the Philippines, including the Sinulog Festival of Cebu City and the Dinagyang Festival of Iloilo City.
In this festival, townsfolk dress themselves in aboriginal clothes and deck their bodies with weapons used by the island’s earliest settlers – the Aetas.
Then, they perform tribal dances, moving to the upbeat tune of traditional music as they wind through Kalibo’s streets that are then jampacked with spectators.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Third weekend of January each year
2. Sinulog Festival of Cebu City
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
A festival that marks the local people’s transition from paganism to Catholicism, Sinulog Festival of Cebu City is celebrated in a grand way for nine days in January each year.
It is held in honor of Santo Niño, whose icon is carried by many of the festivals elegantly dressed revelers.
It kicks off with a fluvial procession – where an icon of Santo Niño is hosted in a boat adorned with flowers and candles – and ends with the festive Sinulog Grand Parade – a parade of costumed townsfolk gracefully dancing while cleaving to icons of Santo Niño.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Third weekend of January each year
3. Dinagyang Festival of Iloilo City
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
A festival that exhibits the local people’s excellent choreography, Dinagyang Festival of Iloilo is a religious-cultural event famous for its Ati-Atihan and Kasadyahan.
Ati-Atihan is a parade of about twenty groups of local people dressed as tribesmen.
Their bodies are covered in soot and they dance to the beat of drums and gongs.
Kasadyahan is a cultural presentation of the province’s early history and the people’s conversion to Catholicism.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Fourth weekend of January each year
4. Panagbenga Festival of Baguio City
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
A festival meant to inspire the local people to “bloom” and move forward after a 1990 earthquake left their city shattered, Panagbenga Festival or Flower Festival of Baguio City is also homage to the beautiful flowers that bloom in Baguio, the Philippines’ summer capital.
During this festival, local folks create floats that are ornately decorated with flowers grown in Baguio and its surrounding provinces.
They also dress themselves in flower-inspired costumes, perform traditional dances to the sounds of drums, and parade down the city’s main roads.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
The entire month of February / parade on the last Sunday of February or first Sunday of March
5. Moriones Festival of Marinduque
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
A Lenten Season celebration that fuses folk history and religious events, Moriones Festival of Marinduque has the local people wearing masks to appear like the Roman soldiers of the biblical times.
This festival pays tribute to Saint Longinus, a commander of a century in the Roman army, who was blind in one eye.
This centurion’s story is reenacted in an elaborate theatrical play staged by the locals.
Many Moriones Festival’s revelers also wear masks during the festival season, roaming the streets and jolting people for good-spirited fun.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Good Friday of the Lenten Season of each year
6. Carabao Festival of Pulilan
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
The Carabao Festival of Pulilan in Bulacan is a day of respect for Saint Isidore the Worker – the patron saint of the farmers – and the Filipino farmers’ work companions – the carabaos or water buffalos.
In this festival, carabaos are paraded on the streets and made to kneel at the end of the parade.
The act of kneeling is supposed to replicate a man who knelt before Saint Isidore after finding out by surprise that an angel would help the saint plow the fields.
In the Philippines, carabaos help farmers toil the soil.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
May 14 and May 15 of each year
7. Pahiyas Festival of Lucban
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
Another festival held in honor of Saint Isidore, who Filipinos ask for intercession when praying for a bountiful harvest, is the Pahiyas Festival of Lucban in the province of Quezon.
This festival is very famous for its decorations, as households try to top one another in decking their houses’ facades with fruits, vegetables and handicrafts, creating an explosion of colors in Lucban’s streets.
Also during this festival, people share foods with one another.
These foods include pancit Lucban, triangulo biscuits, fruits, vegetables, and other local treats.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
May 15 of each year
8. Peñafrancia Festival of Naga City
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
The Peñafrancia Festival is a religious festival that honors Naga City’s patron saint – the Our Lady of Peñafrancia – whose wooden icon was brought to the province by its devotees all the way from Salamanca, Spain.
It is a nine-day novena that is capped with a fluvial procession, where the image of the Our Lady Peñafrancia is carried in a pagoda down the Naga River and accompanied by hundreds of flower- and candle-bearing faithful Catholics who chant "Viva La Virgen!"
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
Third Saturday of September each year
9. Higantes of Festival of Angono
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
Fishermen and townsfolk in Angono, Rizal in the Philippines honor the city’s patron saint – San Clemente – on November 23 of each year during the Higantes Festival.
The saint’s gigantic images, made of recycled and painted paper, are paraded by fishermen wearing colorful clothing and bearing fishnets, boat paddles, and other tools they use for fishing.
These images are as high as 12 feet and as wide as five feet.
The parade navigates the streets of Angono until it reaches the banks of Laguna de Bay.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
November 23 of each year
10. Giant Lantern Festival of San Fernando
Why Filipinos Celebrate this Festival
Christmas is such a big event for the Filipinos but for the people of San Fernando, it is enormous.
In fact, they like their Christmas lanterns not big but gigantic.
The local people stage the annual Giant Lantern Festival, an awe-inspiring display of over-sized lanterns handcrafted by the locals and made to light up to the tune of lively music and breathtaking fireworks.
So popular is this local festival that San Fernando has earned the title of the Christmas Capital of the Philippines.
When Filipinos Celebrate this Festival:
The Saturday before Christmas Eve of each year
Friday, October 26, 2012
Think you know the common Filipino condiments?
Filipino Condiments Philippine condiments often accompany Filipino dishes for those who want stronger flavor. The following is a list of some of these Philippine products, their local names, and pictures.
Atsara – pickled vegetables, usually papaya but there are also other versions like one using bitter gourd (ampalaya)
Banana ketchup
Bagoong / Ginamos – fermented salted fish usually prepared to a pasty consistency
Mackerel / Anchovy sauce (bagoong balayan, named after the town of Balayan, Batangas)
Salted Anchovies (bagoong monamon / bagoong dilis / monamon dilis)
Salted Bonnetmouths (bagoong terong) [not sure exactly what fish species is used]
Salted Ziganids (bagoong padas) – usually small jarred fish sold still relatively whole and not ground up; probably refers to rabbitfish (family Siganidae)
Buro - again pickled, salted or fermented but applying especially to salted green unripe mangoes (burong mangga); also refers to a Pampangan preparation that has fish or shrimps mixed with rice and salt left to ferment and then days later sautéed with tomatoes, onions, and garlic
Calamansi / Calamondin / Philippine Lime (kalamansi)
Chicken oil
Chili (sili) – often added to soy sauce or vinegar
Crab paste / Crab fat / Crab roe (taba ng talangka or aligue)
Ensalada – in Spanish salad, but in the Philippine context can also often refer to vinegared vegetables used as a relish which pretty much makes it similar or the same as atsara but the term is more likely to be applied to eggplants and cucumbers as in ensaladang talong and ensaladang pipino
Fish sauce (patis)
Hot sauce
Lechon sauce (sarsa)
Patismansi – fish sauce mixed with calamansi juice
Shrimp paste (bagoong alamang)
Soy sauce (toyo)
Sweet chili sauce
Tomato (kamatis) – fresh chopped; also salted and boiled in water to make something akin to and used like tomato water
Toyomansi – soy sauce mixed with calamansi juice
Vinegar (suka) – those found in Filipino markets are usually a product of sugar cane but some are also derived from coconut; it's often mixed with chili, garlic, and possibly other spices and herbs to make spiced vinegar (sinamak) or combined with chili, garlic, soy sauce, fish sauce or some combination thereof to make a dipping sauce (sawsawan) at the dining table
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
10 Unique Things of the Philippines CLICK here to see them. Now you know my favorites. What are yours?
10 Unique Things of the Philippines
1. The People -=- Generally, Filipino people will go out of their way to help a stranger or a visitor. Yes this is not always the case and certain areas are to be avoided but I have experienced incredible service in shops and restaurants there.
2. The Weather -=- Despite hating the high humidity, I also love it. I prefer it so much more than shoveling snow.
3. The Food -=- I enjoy most of the traditional Filipino foods, with only a few exceptions.
Lechon Manok (roast Chicken on a spit) is one of my favorites.
Filipino baked goods are yummy yummy-yummy too. I am happy to try anything and have yet to come across something baked I dislike. Also, the Filipino spin on western food is quite nice too, Fried Chicken with Rice and Gravy is very popular in the Philippines and I can see why.
Spaghetti sauce is sweet but still tomato based and very nice... Sarap-Sarap :-)))
4. The Laid back Attitude -=- This also makes for Filipino Time which is something I dislike.
There is nothing like sitting down with a group of Filipino's and simply relaxing is something we all should do.
5. The Scenery -=- If you have never been to the Philippines it has some of the most amazing scenery. I could go on and on and on about all the wonderful things to see and do in the Philippines.
6. The Family and Friend Orientations -=- Despite the fact that Filipinos in the USA do not seem to unite for a common goal, in the Philippines it is very different and families work together.
Distant relatives who have made a lot of money will sponsor a cousin or similar to go to college or some other course to better themselves.
Overseas workers pay for the education of one or more relatives back home and this attitude carries on with a "Pay It Forward" kind of attitude.
Neighbors remain friends and will always ask about how they are doing and regularly meet up for meals and drinks. Something lacking in the USA.
7. Meal Time -=- Meal are a family gathering where everyone comes together around the table and food is family style. Food is put in the middle of the table for people to scoop up what they want. Pleasant conversations are as much a part of the ritual of meal times as is the food. While growing up in Pennsylvania this was a regular practice. Unfortunately in the USA this is something we as a nation have moved away from yet the practice is alive and well in the Philippines. In the USA we should strive to return back to this instead of the current TV dinner type of experience!
8. The Prices -=- I can have a quick yummy meal for just a few US dollars!
As a gift I bought a friends daughter a baby walker and it costs about a third of what a similar unit in the USA would cost.
Drinks cost very little too. And, for a westerner this gives us a few extra pesos for tips which makes us seem nicer in the eyes of those serving us.
9. Twelve Hours of Sunlight -=- Being near the equator there is roughly 12 hours of sunlight every day.
This makes for a graceful awakening some time before 6am and you quickly adapt to waking and sleeping naturally and not relying on alarm clocks.
And of course 12 hours of Sunlight means you have plenty of time to enjoy whatever it is yo plan to do that day!
10. Love of Music -=- Every Filipino loves music and makes time to listen to music every day (or at least every Filipino that I know does).
So on my daily travels I will hear music in the malls, coming out of bakeries, stores, tricycles, jeepneys, cars and trucks. Basically you hear music anywhere you go in the Philippines.
Now you heard my ten things. What are yours?
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1. The People -=- Generally, Filipino people will go out of their way to help a stranger or a visitor. Yes this is not always the case and certain areas are to be avoided but I have experienced incredible service in shops and restaurants there.
2. The Weather -=- Despite hating the high humidity, I also love it. I prefer it so much more than shoveling snow.
3. The Food -=- I enjoy most of the traditional Filipino foods, with only a few exceptions.
Lechon Manok (roast Chicken on a spit) is one of my favorites.
Filipino baked goods are yummy yummy-yummy too. I am happy to try anything and have yet to come across something baked I dislike. Also, the Filipino spin on western food is quite nice too, Fried Chicken with Rice and Gravy is very popular in the Philippines and I can see why.
Spaghetti sauce is sweet but still tomato based and very nice... Sarap-Sarap :-)))
4. The Laid back Attitude -=- This also makes for Filipino Time which is something I dislike.
There is nothing like sitting down with a group of Filipino's and simply relaxing is something we all should do.
5. The Scenery -=- If you have never been to the Philippines it has some of the most amazing scenery. I could go on and on and on about all the wonderful things to see and do in the Philippines.
6. The Family and Friend Orientations -=- Despite the fact that Filipinos in the USA do not seem to unite for a common goal, in the Philippines it is very different and families work together.
Distant relatives who have made a lot of money will sponsor a cousin or similar to go to college or some other course to better themselves.
Overseas workers pay for the education of one or more relatives back home and this attitude carries on with a "Pay It Forward" kind of attitude.
Neighbors remain friends and will always ask about how they are doing and regularly meet up for meals and drinks. Something lacking in the USA.
7. Meal Time -=- Meal are a family gathering where everyone comes together around the table and food is family style. Food is put in the middle of the table for people to scoop up what they want. Pleasant conversations are as much a part of the ritual of meal times as is the food. While growing up in Pennsylvania this was a regular practice. Unfortunately in the USA this is something we as a nation have moved away from yet the practice is alive and well in the Philippines. In the USA we should strive to return back to this instead of the current TV dinner type of experience!
8. The Prices -=- I can have a quick yummy meal for just a few US dollars!
As a gift I bought a friends daughter a baby walker and it costs about a third of what a similar unit in the USA would cost.
Drinks cost very little too. And, for a westerner this gives us a few extra pesos for tips which makes us seem nicer in the eyes of those serving us.
9. Twelve Hours of Sunlight -=- Being near the equator there is roughly 12 hours of sunlight every day.
This makes for a graceful awakening some time before 6am and you quickly adapt to waking and sleeping naturally and not relying on alarm clocks.
And of course 12 hours of Sunlight means you have plenty of time to enjoy whatever it is yo plan to do that day!
10. Love of Music -=- Every Filipino loves music and makes time to listen to music every day (or at least every Filipino that I know does).
So on my daily travels I will hear music in the malls, coming out of bakeries, stores, tricycles, jeepneys, cars and trucks. Basically you hear music anywhere you go in the Philippines.
Now you heard my ten things. What are yours?
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Tuesday, October 23, 2012
How many Exotic Foods of the Philippines do you eat? I have eaten all but two on this list... (Click) to see the pics
I have eaten all but two on this list... How many of these Exotic Foods of the Philippines do you eat? (Click) to see the pics
Every country has their share of exotic foods served on the table
with some even known as the country's specialty. The Philippines is no
different. Here are a few of those I found.
There are so many Filipino exotic foods that are truly unique and delicious. Below you will find some of the many Filipino exotic foods.
Some of them have a strange appearance and look weird. There are some people that dive right in and eat them while others find them not acceptable or not appropriate to eat. Personally, I fall somewhere in between.
That being said... If you follow the adage "don't judge the book by its cover", then you will able to eat each of these without hesitation.
This saying really applies to unique exotic foods of the Philippines. I have eaten all but two on the following list. And for me most of it was overcoming the mental challenge involved in getting it into my mouth. And "YES," I ate the balut.
BALUT
Balut is a fertilized duck (or chicken) egg with a nearly-developed embryo inside that is boiled and eaten in the shell.
Balut eggs are believed to be an aphrodisiac and considered a high-protein, hearty snack.
Balut is sold primarily by street vendors in the regions where they are available.
SOUP NUMBER 5
Soup Number Five, is a soup made from bull's testicles or penis.
Like balut, it is believed to have aphrodisiac tendencies that makes people say it is better than spending money on Viagra..
GINATAANG KUHOL
The French call "kuhol" by the name "escargot". Kuhol or escargot is an edible snail. Guinataang Kuhol is a favorite appetizer in Filipino restaurants. It is also a popular pica-pica (finger food) that goes well with cold beer. Ginataang kuhol is a spicy dish.
DINUGUAN
Dinuguan is a Filipino savory stew of blood and meat (typically stomach, intestines, ears, heart and snout) simmered in a rich, spicy dark gravy of pig blood, garlic, chili , and vinegar.
TAMILOK
In Palawan and Aklan in the Philippines, the woodworm is called tamilok and it is eaten as a delicacy there.
Tamilok is prepared as kinilaw—that is, raw (cleaned) but marinaded with vinegar or lime juice, chopped chili peppers and onions, a process very similar to ceviche. The taste and texture has been compared to oysters and clams.
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Going Home to Pilipias to Visit. I am not Rich by our Filipino friend Jojie C from Kidapawan,Philippines
Going Home to Pilipias to Visit. I am not Rich
by our Filipino friend Jojie C from Kidapawan,Philippines
What I find annoying is that people specially residing in Philippines, see us folks returning to Philippines for a visit as rich folks. They would always think that we have money! They would try and take advantage of us by jacking up the prices, or in case of friends and relatives, they will ask for some money. Or we will get a phone call or an email or text, asking for a sum of money because they need to buy this or that or need a big lump sum of money for some emergency and they will always than not say, it’s only this much. Er.. Only this much?
Traveling
Well in truth, we do have some money, when we are traveling. We saved up months or in our case—those like me with average income, years. We save a little bit each time we get paid over time so we have some spending money to spend in Philippines. It is not because we are rich, it’s because, we manage our money by saving it. So it seems that when we do get to Philippines, we have loads of money to spend!
Asking for money
The other part, that is common too, is this—and it often happens when you happen to be in Philippines, one of your relative will borrow some money. For whatever reasoning they need the money for, they will ask you whilst you are on holiday.
Think about this for a second. When we travel, our money is already allocated. Even though, we have not yet spent it, it is already geared for future travel expenses. Unless of course, you factor in these kind of requests in your travels to Philippines then I suppose you would be OK and not get caught. Most of us though, only caters for what we might be spending on. We really only have pocket money and other travel expenses with us. We do carry credit cards for emergencies and perhaps have some more money in our bank, in our savings account, which is our savings or other unmet expenses or other emergencies—but not for requests by relatives or being priced higher by vendors because they somehow smelt you have been overseas.
Currency differences
As I traveled in Philippines just six months ago, my new friends and I were talking about income and expenses and a taxi driver in Manila who could smell money from me, even though I was talking in Tagalog (the Philippine national language) and not at all boasting where I was from. Heck I didn’t’ even mention anything about overseas, until he asked me where in America was I from. The gist of the story was this, she and the others thought I was rich, after converting what I normally earn per financial year and converted to Philippine peso. When we converted my income, it ran into millions of pesos. Average yearly income for Filipino workers is about 120,000.00 pesos—based on 10k monthly earning. I know too, that people are getting paid far less than that. Learning that my income runs into millions of peso value, would be seen as a rich man right? I would think so too! But it all ends there though. As I explained, with the big currency conversion gap from American dollar to Philippine peso, the standards of living and costs of living in the USA is expensive. I further explained, what some of the costs that I incur whilst living in the USA and told them, that if they thought, the few millions I earned after converting to the Philippine currency is rich, I thought, to make them understand, I would also convert my basic expenses to peso and perhaps, they can understand it that way. Indeed it worked! The taxi driver—who by the way ripped me off anyway, by not giving me my change from my taxi fare—I gave him 500 pesos for about 300 pesos taxi fare. He said to me during this conversation that, we are in a way, in the same position, living pay check per pay check.
Educating the few
I have always known, this to be a fact. Whenever somebody arrives from overseas, Filipinos would think they are loaded with money. I have always tried to explain to them that it isn’t always the case! We are just average folks living in a different country and spending our money here because it’s cheaper in currency value and as such our money would last longer. I have also tried explaining in other ways, that they should not see us “balik bayans” as $$$$. But most of them failed. Until, I started explaining everything in peso value.
Though, I hope, I won’t have to have a conversations like these again next time I visit Philippines. I also know this would be a mere impossibility, because somebody will eventually ask. This time around though, at least, I can explain it in a more logical terms that an average Filipino worker can understand.
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by our Filipino friend Jojie C from Kidapawan,Philippines
What I find annoying is that people specially residing in Philippines, see us folks returning to Philippines for a visit as rich folks. They would always think that we have money! They would try and take advantage of us by jacking up the prices, or in case of friends and relatives, they will ask for some money. Or we will get a phone call or an email or text, asking for a sum of money because they need to buy this or that or need a big lump sum of money for some emergency and they will always than not say, it’s only this much. Er.. Only this much?
Traveling
Well in truth, we do have some money, when we are traveling. We saved up months or in our case—those like me with average income, years. We save a little bit each time we get paid over time so we have some spending money to spend in Philippines. It is not because we are rich, it’s because, we manage our money by saving it. So it seems that when we do get to Philippines, we have loads of money to spend!
Asking for money
The other part, that is common too, is this—and it often happens when you happen to be in Philippines, one of your relative will borrow some money. For whatever reasoning they need the money for, they will ask you whilst you are on holiday.
Think about this for a second. When we travel, our money is already allocated. Even though, we have not yet spent it, it is already geared for future travel expenses. Unless of course, you factor in these kind of requests in your travels to Philippines then I suppose you would be OK and not get caught. Most of us though, only caters for what we might be spending on. We really only have pocket money and other travel expenses with us. We do carry credit cards for emergencies and perhaps have some more money in our bank, in our savings account, which is our savings or other unmet expenses or other emergencies—but not for requests by relatives or being priced higher by vendors because they somehow smelt you have been overseas.
Currency differences
As I traveled in Philippines just six months ago, my new friends and I were talking about income and expenses and a taxi driver in Manila who could smell money from me, even though I was talking in Tagalog (the Philippine national language) and not at all boasting where I was from. Heck I didn’t’ even mention anything about overseas, until he asked me where in America was I from. The gist of the story was this, she and the others thought I was rich, after converting what I normally earn per financial year and converted to Philippine peso. When we converted my income, it ran into millions of pesos. Average yearly income for Filipino workers is about 120,000.00 pesos—based on 10k monthly earning. I know too, that people are getting paid far less than that. Learning that my income runs into millions of peso value, would be seen as a rich man right? I would think so too! But it all ends there though. As I explained, with the big currency conversion gap from American dollar to Philippine peso, the standards of living and costs of living in the USA is expensive. I further explained, what some of the costs that I incur whilst living in the USA and told them, that if they thought, the few millions I earned after converting to the Philippine currency is rich, I thought, to make them understand, I would also convert my basic expenses to peso and perhaps, they can understand it that way. Indeed it worked! The taxi driver—who by the way ripped me off anyway, by not giving me my change from my taxi fare—I gave him 500 pesos for about 300 pesos taxi fare. He said to me during this conversation that, we are in a way, in the same position, living pay check per pay check.
Educating the few
I have always known, this to be a fact. Whenever somebody arrives from overseas, Filipinos would think they are loaded with money. I have always tried to explain to them that it isn’t always the case! We are just average folks living in a different country and spending our money here because it’s cheaper in currency value and as such our money would last longer. I have also tried explaining in other ways, that they should not see us “balik bayans” as $$$$. But most of them failed. Until, I started explaining everything in peso value.
Though, I hope, I won’t have to have a conversations like these again next time I visit Philippines. I also know this would be a mere impossibility, because somebody will eventually ask. This time around though, at least, I can explain it in a more logical terms that an average Filipino worker can understand.
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Thursday, October 18, 2012
Do you recall playing Patintero/Sugbuhanon/Tubiganay in the Philippines?
Patintero/Sugbuhanon/Tubiganay - This Filipino game can takes hours to play, is lots of fun and it's good exercise for the young or young-at-heart.Teach this game to your children and keep the Filipino culture alive.
This is a popular Filipino game that seems to be well-loved by Filipinos
throughout the Philippines.
I have heard this refered to by different names in the Philippines yet the game is the same. Some call the game "Patintero" others "Sugbuhanon" and still others refer to it as "Tubiganay".
Perhaps the Tagalog name came from a Spanish word "tinte" meaning "tint" refering to the lines. I can see why those from Cebu and the Visayas call it "tubiganay" because in the dusty fields where it is being played, oftentimes, water is used to make the lines that is crucial to holding this game.
No matter what you call it, Patintero, Sugbuhanon or Tubiganay, this game of speed, agility, team work and being able to bluff is a fun part of Filipino culture.
On hot, lazy summer afternoons, a few pails of water on a dusty patch of land, add a few neighborhood kids and you’ve got stiff competition going on!
What you need: even ground that you can write on using chalk or charcoal, or a patch of land that you can create lines using water or mark using a pointer stick.
Some soil is really dark and loamy so instead of adding water or writing with chalk,
you can use a stick to make shallow grooves in the soil for your lines.
Players: minimum number of 4 - 6 children, more would mean more fun!
The paying field:
Draw the lines like below in figure 1. On smooth concrete or asphalt ground you can use chalk to make the lines. If playing in the sand on on soft dirt you can use a stick to draw the line.
The more players the better. If there are more players, you must add more lines.
The more lines you have, the more difficult and the longer it takes to finish. With more people the game just seems that much more exciting!
The Game:
Players make up two teams of even number (i.e. 2 against 2 or 3 against 3) They can use “maalis-alis” to make the groupings.
Then team leaders can use Jack en Poy to decide who will play first.
The winning team gets to run first while the losing team gets to guard the lines. The team leader is on the first line and he has the “power” to also run along the middle line to catch an opponent.
The running team use all speed and bluffing strategies to get through the lines and back earning them a total points relative to how many players were able to enter the lines and come back to the starting point.
When one member of the running team is tagged, then the runners now become the line guards and the guards now take turn as runners.
This Filipino game can takes hours to play, is lots of fun and it's good exercise for the young or young-at-heart.
Here is a link to a video clip showing children actually playing the game with a brief tutorial.http://youtu.be/jgjgST2F8-s
So what are you waiting for? Plan to teach this game to your children and keep the Filipino culture alive.
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Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Do we celebrate Halloween in the USA the same as they do in the Philippines?
Halloween is quickly approaching. In the USA it's a time of celebration and superstition. Do we celebrate Halloween in the America the same as they do in the Philippines?
Yes and no.
Halloween is one of the oldest holidays in America it's a time of celebration and superstition yet it is celebrated very differently in the Philippines.
In the USA we celebrate Halloween on October 31st which is one day before the beginning of the Halloween Season in the Philippines.
That's right, November 1st is the beginning of the Halloween Season in the Philippines, where they observe it as Halowin, Undas or Day of the Dead.
In the Philippines, the "Day of the Dead" is called Undas, which is derived from the Spanish word "anda" or "honra" (possibly), meaning "All Souls' Day" or "Araw ng Mga Patay".
The Undas-season typically starts on November 1 (Todos los Santos or "All Saints' Day") and then ending on November 2nd, "All Souls Day" itself.
Unlike here in the USA where Halloween is not a national holiday. Undas is a state-recognized holiday (no-working holiday) in the Philippines. People all over the country get time off from work or school giving them time to return to their home provinces, where their family cemeteries are located.
Celebrated a day before "All Saints’ Day", Halloween has, evolved into a day of celebration and superstition.
Lots of child-friendly activities like trick-or-treating and costume parties will be held today. Children pretending to be characters from the underworld will make the rounds of commercial establishments like malls, restaurants, and hotels to ask for candies and other treats while chanting “trick or treat”.
In exclusive subdivisions, club houses, and residential condominiums, where houses have been decorated with spiders, cobwebs, scary masks, and characters weeks before Halloween, parties are usually organized. It has also become a tradition for the homeowners to have candies ready for all the children.
Undas or Day of the Dead History // Origin of Undas in Philippine History
Spain had governed the Philippines for over 300 years, and many of their Spanish customs and traditions were passed on to the native Filipinos. These include the ways how Undas or Halloween in the Philippines is typically celebrated.
How Do Filipinos Celebrate Halloween?
In the Philippines, Halloween or Undas can be said to be actually more of an observance than a 'celebration.' It's a day of commemoration of the dead. During the Halloween season, Filipinos go to the cemeteries to visit their 'dead', clean their tombstone (sometimes repaint them), light candles, and offer flowers and prayers for the dead (Catholic masses are also offered).
It's a typical sight to see entire families camping in cemeteries and sometimes even spending the whole night or two near their dead relative's tomb. During this time, card games are played, ghost stories are told, and there are eating, drinking, singing, and merriment in commemoration of the departed loved ones. The occasion is more like a family reunion or banquet or family picnic.
Filipino Halloween of the past
Pag-aatang or Atang
- An Ilocano-Filipino superstitious belief and practice of offering food in an altar for loved ones who had passed away. This is typically just a form of respect and remembrance and holds no religious significance.
Pag-titirik ng Kandila
- 'Erecting a candle' - in front of houses, on the ground or sometimes on top of gates or fences - to guide the souls of the faithful departed coming home to visit during the Halloween season or Undas. (I personally find this very creepy.)
Pangaluluwa
- 'Ghost visits' or 'Haunting' (coming from the word kaluluwa, meaning 'soul'). The Filipino version of 'trick-or-treat' performed usually in the provinces or rural areas, where kids, children, or young folks would dress in white or drape themselves in white sheets going from house to house in the evening or early morning of Undas or Halloween, ghoulishly singing and begging for some alms or foods, treats, or money. (Again, for me, the sound of singing 'souls' in the dead of the night is really really spooky.) This practice is believed to represent the souls stranded in purgatory asking the living for help in the form of prayers so they can get to heaven.
- During the earlier decades, part of this tradition was stealing eggs, chickens, and sometimes even large livestock from the yards of fellow townspeople. It's a friendly Halloween tradition that is now slowly dying out.
Modern-day Halloween Celebrations
Even pets get to wear costumes for Halloween Aside from Spain, the United States also governed the Philippines some time during the first half of the 20th Century, particularly after World War II. Thus, much of the modern-day Halloween celebrations you can see or experience in the Philippines came from the influence of Americans.
Corporate offices, school faculties, private institutions, and other groups and communities hold Halloween parties in celebration. Teens and youth would go to a Halloween Ball in the night club in the city, if not ghost hunting or spirit questing in secluded neighborhoods.
Malls are garishly adorned with Halloween decorations and kids and small children will go trick or treating (in the malls) wearing their best cute, if not scary outfits. Scariest Halloween costume contests among other festivities are also prevalent.
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Friday, October 5, 2012
Crab Mentality and Ways To Cope
Crab Mentality and Ways To Cope
The phrase crab mentality is one that many of us are familiar with, or have fallen victim too. It is a mental mindset that best describes individuals who possess a selfish, short-sighted way of seeing the world.
It’s basically saying, “If I can’t have it, neither should you.” Normally, it is not a compliment to an individual’s character or personality if they are referred to having a crab mentality; it is actually something that a lot of us would see as being an insult.
The phrase derived from what occurs when you place several crabs in one container. If one crab attempts to escape a bucket of live crabs, the other crabs will attempt to pull it back down, rather than allowing the crab whom is trying to escape to gain its freedom.
The process, if you ever get the chance to watch at times seems underhanded, because the crabs at the bottom of the container will allow the one crab to get almost to the top and getting a sight of its freedom, before snagging it back down; just to start the process all over again.
The crabs are oblivious to the fact that eventually they all will meet their fate and that not even one of them would ever see or feel freedom ever again; which I imagine is of no concern to them.
When a person is said to have a crab mentality, it simply means they are unwilling to allow someone else to escape a situation, are plagued with jealousy and envy, or possess the need to stop the successful progress of another.
In the mental mindset of someone who has a crab mentality, their train of thought is to sabotage another persons plan for attempting to leave a life that may not have rendered the other individual any good whatsoever. That is simply of no concern to the crabbily individuals.
Instead of using their resources or simple encouragement to help advance other’s; they would rather not lend any support at all.
Sometimes even going as far as to trying to break the person spirit or means of advancement altogether, by talking negatively about the person or insulting the individual’s self-worth. They ever go through the extremes of criticizing any attempts one might have towards self-betterment.
There is no age cap on this type of mentality; it’s in every gender, and every race, and in every social standing. It’s found in our jobs, our schools, our homes, and yes even in the blog world. I have found that a lot of times, those who are guilty of the mentality, deny that they even have it at all.
It’s the inability to be happy for someone else that is taking the necessary steps to move forward; instead, that person is classified as, “trying to be better”, “trying to be like someone else”, or “trying to be something that they are not.” It never registers to the crab mentality holder that the person, maybe just wants to better themselves.
So below I’ve come up with some easy fixes to cope with those who possess such foolishness.
Ways to Cope with Crab Mentality
When handling a person that has a crab mentality you must first see them for who they really are. And, you’ll be able to pinpoint them easily; they truly can’t help exposing themselves.
You tell them a dream that you have or a goal that you’re trying to reach; and they tear it into little bitty pieces, as though your dreams was paper and they were paper shredders.
After you know the truth about these individuals and have placed them in the category of having a “crab mentality”, you then should protect your dreams and goals from these individuals.
They can’t tear up, what they don’t know about, right?
Place those gems (your dreams and goals) only in people who believe you can achieve what you’re setting out to do. They will in turn give you insight, encouragement, and inspiration to reach those things you wish to obtain.
After you have categorized these individuals you should then steer clear of them…. all of them!
Not forever if that’s not what you’re able to do, but for as long as you can until your gems take shape and you’re able to be around them without them influencing your progress.
Lastly, keep your eyes open and avoid having the mentality yourself. Since no one is exempt from practicing this selfish behavior, you should look for the first sign of you possessing the trait and eliminate it immediately.
By supporting someone else’s dream or helping them to reach their goal, you may just find that you have actually helped yourself to get little bit closer to reaching your own.
Let’s discuss now, shall we?
Have you ever had to deal with someone who possessed a crab mentality?
How did you handle the individual?
What advice would you give to other’s who may have found themselves surrounded by individuals who see their personal growth as trying to be better?
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It’s basically saying, “If I can’t have it, neither should you.” Normally, it is not a compliment to an individual’s character or personality if they are referred to having a crab mentality; it is actually something that a lot of us would see as being an insult.
The phrase derived from what occurs when you place several crabs in one container. If one crab attempts to escape a bucket of live crabs, the other crabs will attempt to pull it back down, rather than allowing the crab whom is trying to escape to gain its freedom.
The process, if you ever get the chance to watch at times seems underhanded, because the crabs at the bottom of the container will allow the one crab to get almost to the top and getting a sight of its freedom, before snagging it back down; just to start the process all over again.
The crabs are oblivious to the fact that eventually they all will meet their fate and that not even one of them would ever see or feel freedom ever again; which I imagine is of no concern to them.
When a person is said to have a crab mentality, it simply means they are unwilling to allow someone else to escape a situation, are plagued with jealousy and envy, or possess the need to stop the successful progress of another.
In the mental mindset of someone who has a crab mentality, their train of thought is to sabotage another persons plan for attempting to leave a life that may not have rendered the other individual any good whatsoever. That is simply of no concern to the crabbily individuals.
Instead of using their resources or simple encouragement to help advance other’s; they would rather not lend any support at all.
Sometimes even going as far as to trying to break the person spirit or means of advancement altogether, by talking negatively about the person or insulting the individual’s self-worth. They ever go through the extremes of criticizing any attempts one might have towards self-betterment.
There is no age cap on this type of mentality; it’s in every gender, and every race, and in every social standing. It’s found in our jobs, our schools, our homes, and yes even in the blog world. I have found that a lot of times, those who are guilty of the mentality, deny that they even have it at all.
It’s the inability to be happy for someone else that is taking the necessary steps to move forward; instead, that person is classified as, “trying to be better”, “trying to be like someone else”, or “trying to be something that they are not.” It never registers to the crab mentality holder that the person, maybe just wants to better themselves.
So below I’ve come up with some easy fixes to cope with those who possess such foolishness.
Ways to Cope with Crab Mentality
When handling a person that has a crab mentality you must first see them for who they really are. And, you’ll be able to pinpoint them easily; they truly can’t help exposing themselves.
You tell them a dream that you have or a goal that you’re trying to reach; and they tear it into little bitty pieces, as though your dreams was paper and they were paper shredders.
After you know the truth about these individuals and have placed them in the category of having a “crab mentality”, you then should protect your dreams and goals from these individuals.
They can’t tear up, what they don’t know about, right?
Place those gems (your dreams and goals) only in people who believe you can achieve what you’re setting out to do. They will in turn give you insight, encouragement, and inspiration to reach those things you wish to obtain.
After you have categorized these individuals you should then steer clear of them…. all of them!
Not forever if that’s not what you’re able to do, but for as long as you can until your gems take shape and you’re able to be around them without them influencing your progress.
Lastly, keep your eyes open and avoid having the mentality yourself. Since no one is exempt from practicing this selfish behavior, you should look for the first sign of you possessing the trait and eliminate it immediately.
By supporting someone else’s dream or helping them to reach their goal, you may just find that you have actually helped yourself to get little bit closer to reaching your own.
Let’s discuss now, shall we?
Have you ever had to deal with someone who possessed a crab mentality?
How did you handle the individual?
What advice would you give to other’s who may have found themselves surrounded by individuals who see their personal growth as trying to be better?
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Tuesday, October 2, 2012
October is Filipino Heritage Month - Who are the Filipino Americans?
October is Filipino Heritage Month - Who are the Filipino Americans?
Filipino Americans are immigrants to the United States from one of the 7,107 islands and islets that form the archipelago of the Philippines, and their U.S.-born descendants. In the United States, Filipinos are categorized as Asian Americans. This official category is used to refer to people who can trace their ancestry to the peoples of the Far East, Southeast Asia, or the Indian sub-continent. However, Filipinos are unique within the Asian groups given the strong Spanish influence in their culture in addition to Chinese and Malaysian influences.
The Philippine Islands were under Spanish colonial rule from 1565 through 1898. In 1564 Miguel López de Legazpi, acting on behalf of King Philip II of Spain, set off on an expedition to colonize and Christianize the archipelago. He landed in Cebu in 1565, and during the next seven years transformed the Philippines into a Spanish colony and the only Christian nation in Asia. About one hundred years before the arrival of the Spaniards, the religious traditions of Filipinos had been strongly influenced by Muhammadans, also known as Moors or Moros. In fact, even after the Spaniards' arrival, conversion to Christianity was not uniform; the Moors in the southern Philippines successfully resisted Spanish influence for three centuries.
American Control of the Philippines
The Philippines and the United Stated have had a long-lasting, intertwined political history. At the close of the Spanish-American War of 1898, the United States paid Spain $20 million at the close of the Treaty of Paris, wherein Spain relinquished claims on the Philippines, Cuba, and Puerto Rico. Initially, U.S. military forces controlled only Manila and surrounding geographic areas. Early in 1899, the Philippine-American War began as the United States tried to gain greater control of the archipelago, whose inhabitants had already fought for and declared a Philippine Republic headed by Emilio Aguinaldo. The war ended in 1902. President Theodore Roosevelt's peace proclamation applied to all except the "country inhabited by the Moro tribes," located in the southern lands of the archipelago. Some scholars contend that the Philippine-American War extended unofficially until 1912 or 1913. On 4 July 1946, the United States granted independence to the Philippines, marking the formation of the second Philippine Republic. However, Filipinos and Filipino Americans celebrate Independence Day on 12 June, the date when the Philippines declared independence from Spain in 1898.
There have been four identified waves of Filipino migration to the United States, each marked by a particular sociopolitical context that has shaped both Filipino and American history. The beginning of the first wave was in 1763, although Filipino migration to the United States has been documented as early as 1587, when so-called Luzon Indians landed in Morro Bay, California. The Indians were crewmembers of the Spanish galleon Nuestra Senora de Buena Esperanza. These early travels by the Luzon are not surprising given that their lands were among the first colonized by Spaniards in the 1560s.
Filipino Migration
In the first wave of Filipino migration, Filipino seamen (Manilamen) in Acapulco crossed the Gulf of Mexico to Barataria Bay in Louisiana in 1763. They established a series of Philippine-style fishing villages and pioneered the dried shrimp industry in America. In 1781, Antonio Miranda Rodríguez, a Filipino, and his eleven-year-old daughter were sent by the Spanish government from Mexico to settle the Pueblo de Nuestra Señora Reina de los Angeles de Porciúncula, later known as the city of Los Angeles. The second wave of migration to America occurred between 1906 and 1935, after the United States had gained control of the islands. It brought students, scholars (pensianados), and workers. More than 125,000 Filipinos migrated to Hawaii to work on Hawaiian sugarcane plantations. The Filipino presence in Hawaii continues to be significant. In 1994, Ben Cayetano, Hawaii's fifth governor and the first of Filipino heritage, took office; he was reelected in 1998. Some Filipinos in the second wave of immigration went to labor in the farms of California and canneries of Alaska. This led to the prominent participation of Filipinos in the United Farm Workers, most famous for its 1965 Delano, California, grape strike.
The third and fourth waves of migration follow each other very closely. The third wave began with the end of World War II (1939–1945) and lasted through 1965. These immigrants traveled to the United States mostly to join the U.S. Navy as noncitizens. The fourth wave of migration came with the passage in 1965 of the Immigration and Nationality Act that removed the 1924 national origins quota system. This wave of migration has been characterized as the "brain drain" wave because of the high numbers of Filipino professionals moving to the United States.
Filipinos As a Component of the U.S. Population
Filipino Americans make up 2.4 million of the 11.9 million Asian Americans in the United States. They are the second largest Asian subgroup in America, closely trailing the 2.7 million Chinese Americans in the country. Filipinos provided the largest number of immigrants from any Asian group between 1981 and 1998, bringing over 927,000 new immigrants to the United States during this seventeen-year span. The majority of these immigrants settled in California (47 percent of all immigrants from the Philippines settled there in 1998). In 1999, of the 1.5 million foreign born Filipinos living in the United States, over 61 percent were naturalized citizens. Although the information is scant, available vital and health statistics for Filipino Americans compare favorably to those for other ethnic minorities in America. In 1998, 6.2 percent of births to Filipinas were to teen mothers, 19.7 percent were to unwed mothers (a far second place among Asian Americans to Hawaii's 51.1 percent), 84.2 percent of Filipino American mothers began prenatal care in the first trimester, and 8.2 percent of their children were born in the low birth weight category. These numbers are not surprising, given that the Philippine nation of over 74 million people has similarly low rates of children born to teen mothers (3.9 percent) and born at low birth weight (9 percent) along with high rates of immunization, with anywhere between 71 percent and 91 percent of children immunized for various illnesses. Filipino Americans have higher than national average rates of participation in the workforce, high school graduation, and college graduation. Even though Filipino Americans have over twice the national proportion of three or more household members participating in the workforce, their per capita income is slightly below the national average, although they have below national average poverty rates. Filipino Americans are most notably visible in Hawaii, Alaska, California, and Nevada.
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Bibliography
Bautista, Veltisezar. The Filipino Americans (1763–Present): Their History, Culture, and Traditions. 2d ed. Naperville, Ill.: Book-haus, 2002.
Scharlin, Craig, and Lila V. Villanueva. Philip Vera Cruz: A Personal History of Filipino Immigrants and the Farm Workers Movement. Seattle: University of Washington Press, 2000.
U.S. Bureau of the Census. "The Asian Population: 2000." Available from http://www.census.gov/prod/2002pubs/c2kbr01-16.pdf
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